tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-87962232169072336712024-03-13T21:51:33.344-07:00All Girly CrossdresserAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15577491083605832118noreply@blogger.comBlogger23125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8796223216907233671.post-75877914776956090582013-09-18T07:37:00.000-07:002013-09-18T07:37:09.801-07:00Out to My SisterWell if I haven't mentioned this before I'm out to my Sister. She was told ages ago by my Ex-Wife at the beginning of Summer. Since she was told though she hasn't mentioned a thing and now there exists this kind of awkwardness about it. My wife said she would speak to her if I wanted to but I think I should do it. It would clear the air.<br />
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Well my job ended at the beginning of the Summer and to be honest I'm glad to see the back of it. Been trying to find a Job and had an interview and got down to the last two and just missed out. I cocked up one of the questions.<br />
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Haven't really dressed in a while although last Saturday my wife bought me a top and skirt from Matalan so at the very least I should make the effort. The worst part of dressing up for me is the make-up. Not that I don't like doing it I do, but I'm not that good at it. I did think about going to the local college to get some lessons on doing it. I really don't want to go to anyone to have a make over because I won't learn anything and besides it isn't cheap is it.<br />
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When I do dress I do get a thrill going out but the downside is I'm not that confident about it. I think it's got a lot to do with my weight and have begun to do something about it. Half a stone so far. Been swimming about 4 times a week (20 lengths) and it has helped me feel better as well. When I do venture out people do stare but I think its probably more out of curiosity than anything else. Had a few people snickering but it has damaged me.<br />
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Tomorrow come what may I shall take the bit between my teeth, dress up and go out. Now I've said it I feel I really want to do it. I would love to spend a whole week just being Carolyn and doing what I normally do with all the normal interactions.<br />
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My wife said she would paint my nails tonight but going to the swimming pool tomorrow will raise some eyebrows I'm sure. I spoke with someone who I met and she wears clear nail polish most of the time.<br />
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If anyone has any ideas about where to go and what to do without getting too many stares I would appreciate your recommendation.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15577491083605832118noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8796223216907233671.post-6474332310434470452013-05-26T23:57:00.000-07:002013-05-26T23:57:59.727-07:00Dressed for the 1st time in front JulieIn my last post I told you about coming out to my Julie. Well yesterday she visited me and my wife. We had the general chat about each others families. S and Julie started to talk about crafting which they are both very interested in.<br />
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Anyway over a cup of coffee Julie spied some costume jewellery on a small coffee table. She asked if they were mine and even before I could properly answer she put the bracelets on me along with two rings. S then said well you might as well get dressed. I was very nervous and my reluctance was overcome by Julie encouraging me. <br />
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It was the fastest I've ever got dressed. So coming down the stairs without my makeup was a little bit daunting but as soon as Julie saw me she started to compliment me. I can't tell you how happy it made me. Julie said she would paint my nails and she chose the colour. S did my make up and I was so happy. Julie stayed for about two hours and there was I, Carolyn, fully dressed in front of two women who fully accepted me as I am.<br />
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15577491083605832118noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8796223216907233671.post-44231179202861758972013-05-10T22:58:00.000-07:002013-05-11T07:41:09.621-07:00Out to my FriendWell a short while ago I mentioned about telling my friend Julie about my crossdressing. We have been friends for about 20 years and I was unsure how she would react when I told her. I was invited to hers for a cuppa last Tuesday. While there we had the usual chit chat about things when I said that I felt a bit embarrassed about something. She obviously asked what it was. So I just said that my Sister found out that I was a crossdresser. She immediately said "How did she find out?" And that's how Julie got to know about my crossdressing. I showed her some photos of me dressed and she complimented me. She was fantastic about it all and even suggested that I dress up and go out shopping with her. I told her things weren't that simple and that at times I felt low and even embarrassed about dressing and being seen. She pushed those doubts aside and gave me more encouragement to go out dressed and cited occasions where she had seen other crossdressers out and about. Even when I raised concerns about being ridiculed she pushed them aside and then said don't worry about them just do what you want to do.<br />
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That was a truly an amazing reaction and so much better than I thought it would be. But I just can't keep it all to myself anymore. She lives just down the road and sooner of later a neighbour will see anyway and I thought it better that she find out from me than from them.<br />
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With regards to my work situation it isn't getting any better and is in fact deteriorating and I don't think I can hang on to my job for much longer. It's causing me some problems as I think at my age, 57, despite reassurances about age discrimination it will be difficult to find another. So things are going to get a little tight and we are thinking of moving to a smaller property to help with the finances.<br />
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Well no matter what happens today and where we go I'm definitely going to dress up and have a girly day. My wife is still in bed and I don't know what we'll do but she said that we'll stay local-ish this weekend. It will be nice to spend the weekend together and we don't get much chance to do our own thing. She deserves the extra lay-in because she has very early starts (alarm goes off at 5.45am).<br />
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I read the TES article yesterday 'When Sir Becomes Miss' told about the tragedy of Lucy Meadows and I found it shocking that she was hounded by the press in what the Editor described as 'Venemous'. The article has references to others that have transitioned without any problems and gives a statistic that 1 in a 100 staff be affected by being transgendered. That's an amazing statistic and if you then include Transvestites then the figure has to be higher. So what about the 'inbetweeners'? Those of us who describe ourselves as Crossdressers or Transvestites? Where do we fit in? So it does seem to me that Transsexuals are becoming more acceptable than it is to be a Transvestite. That is not to say it isn't difficult to transition as the case of Lucy Meadows testifies. So those of us who remain in the closet, so to speak, are more heavily discriminated against. How do you tell your boss that on Monday I would like to be known as Tina but on Tuesday I'll be Bob again but on Wednesday although I'll be Bob I will be wearing nail varnish, earrings and lipstick! As you can see we still have a long way to go. Prejudice is every where and those of us who are part of the Trans Community have a long way to go as well. How can we hope to persuade others to accept us as we are when within our own community prejudice is rife. How many times have Transsexuals, both pre and post op, segregated themselves apart from those they describe as Hairy Panty Wearers and dismiss there feelings like their own experience is the only legitimate one. Let us look at our own community first before we judge the wider community because if we can't accept the spectrum of colours within then how can we ask those in 'Vanila World' to accept what we can't.<br />
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Lucy Meadows shouldn't become an old headline where in a news story she was called 'Selfish' but we should remember her struggle and remember how difficult her life was and that what she did she did she did for all of us.<br />
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It is strange that the newspaper that was so vitriolic about Lucy should publish, yesterday, an interesting article about a photographer, Mariette Pathy Allen, who has been photographing crossdressers for 35 years. The headline reads <strong>'Beyond wigs and makeup: Photographer spends 35 years capturing cross-dressers on camera in a mission to 'de-freakify' them' </strong>You can read the article and look at the photos here <a href="http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2322309/Beyond-wigs-makeup-Photographer-spends-35-years-capturing-cross-dressers-camera-mission-freakify-them.html">http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2322309/Beyond-wigs-makeup-Photographer-spends-35-years-capturing-cross-dressers-camera-mission-freakify-them.html</a><br />
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It's a fascinating article and well worth the read. Some of the photos are amazing and this kind of positive image of us is very encouraging.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15577491083605832118noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8796223216907233671.post-29976366737003951482013-05-06T03:09:00.002-07:002013-05-06T03:09:42.431-07:00Bank Holiday MondayWell my work problems still exist and if anything they are getting worse. Now my colleagues and my staff are all aware of something going on but they aren't all exactly sure what. This weekend hasn't therefore been the best for me but last night I changed my outlook and thought wtf. When it happens it happens. <br />
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Encouraged by my wife, S, I put my glad rags on and went out. I drove around to different places with a view to going for a walk but in the end stayed in the car and just spent an hour being Carolyn and enjoying myself.<br />
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I have recently made contact with a couple of people I used to know from a club in Shoreditch that I used to go to called London Friend it was a TV/TS group run by Yvonne Sinclair. I've heard she hasn't been in good health and I wish her all my best. I've made arrangements to meet these people in the not too distant future.<br />
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S said that later today we'll go for a drive and a walk. I'm looking forward to that.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15577491083605832118noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8796223216907233671.post-45530060834403307962013-04-27T04:45:00.002-07:002013-04-27T04:45:49.998-07:00Another crap week at work. The only thing left is to crossdress.Well my senior management won't let up and I've had another bad week at work. I wonder why I bother putting all that effort in to it. Perhaps I should just cruise like so many others do. The only thing left to do it dress up. Put some feminine attire on and chill for the weekend.<br />
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You have to get your head around the fact that it's written for the American market and the majority of web links are aimed at that. I'm still reading and it hasn't yet motivated me to change.<br />
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15577491083605832118noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8796223216907233671.post-63554700069080772122013-04-20T00:00:00.003-07:002013-04-20T00:00:35.563-07:00So much can happen in one weekThere are many maxims in life but the two that always stick out in my mind are a week is a long time in politics and never resign. Well I can say that in my job it is very political but with a small p. This is bigger than office politics but it is a very large organisation dealing with thousands of people each day and every manager has to watch their back and I'm no different. Our senior manager has the power and the ability to make you a hero in the morning and then villain by the time you leave work.<br />
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Needless to say I've had the week from hell. I had all my products and systems under the scrutiny of a government inspector. Have you ever had that feeling that they knew what to look for because someone else had given them the heads up. Well that happened to me. This inspector spent so much time on a small part of my job that has had problems from day 1 but is such a small part of what I do. He was looking for problems and knew what to look for and find what he wanted. Then he fed back to me, my management team and my senior managers and he was reasonably positive. It pleased me, because the report I had done some months before, had correctly identified the problem areas and what needed to be done to rectify it. During his three day inspection he spent an inordinate amount of time with one particular area and with one particular member of my staff. The alarms bells were ringing all the time during his visit until his final report.<br />
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Now you might think I'm paranoid and I could have some sympathy with that view. So if I think my senior managers don't like what I'm doing then they must have been very disappointed in the outcome of the inspection. So I and my team left work very late on Thursday evening breathing a sigh of relief. Back to work yesterday to pick up the pieces of the inspection and with me feeling, to be honest, a bit smug at the result but it didn't last long.<br />
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The CEO made a visit and queried three members of my staff who told him they were dissatisfied with the inspectors report and that it didn't go far enough. So he asked there opinion of me. They didn't give him a favourable report on me and pointed to some weaknesses in our system. A weakness that I had already highlighted in my report and had been deemed by the inspector to be within tolerable limits but should be improved within the coming months. They also told him that a meeting called by my junior manager hadn't taken place because he failed to arrive. He sent me an email complaining bitterly about this. He pointed out what he said were significant weaknesses in my management because of this meeting not taking place and staff perceptions. The problem of course is that before I could respond to his first email which was sent before the meeting was arranged to place he then sent a further email out with more allegations about my ability as a manager.<br />
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Of course I had to respond to the first email pointing out that the meeting was arranged for 11am and therefore my junior could not have been late as he had sent his email out with a time stamp of 10.59 and therefore he must have spoken to him before this and that my junior manager wasn't late and told him he jumped to conclusions too soon about my culpability before he was in full knowledge of the facts. Of course he didn't like this so he then sent a further email and made further allegations. So endeth the working day. I left early completely fed up and pissed off. I was unable because of my mental state to complete two reports needed for Monday. I suppose on Monday I should walk around with a sign saying "Dead Man Walking". To be honest I don't know where to go with it. All I know is that me and my junior manager are exhausted. By lunchtime today we had worked more that 60 hours! What ever happened to the working time agreement? <br />
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Still trying to put work behind me but the prospect of work on Monday looms above my like a dark cloud.<br />
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Last weekend my Ex, Jax, said she was going to have a heart to heart with my sister. They are best friends and I have a good relationship with Jax. Jax said that if she felt it was right she would raise with her the subject of crossdressing and if she felt she was accepting of it she would tell her about my crossdressing. Jax knows how much I struggle with it and I have always felt that if more people who were accepting of it knew then it would make life easier for me. Well Jax call last Sunday evening to tell me that she did have that conversation with her and she told her about me and how much I struggle with crossdressing and to my surprise she said that she was ok with it. I haven't spoken with my Sister since last week about this and to be honest I'm a bit nervous about it. Not sure what to say about it all. Last Sunday she sent me a text message after she found out. It said "<em>Hi hope u are ok you will always be my brother and I will love you always xxx ring me when u can"</em> I haven't called her but I made excuses about being really busy, which I was, and despite the postive message from her I'm still very nervous about it. I don't even know how to start the conversation. I will have to speak with her today. I will probably send her a text message.<br />
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Last Saturday I dressed to go out with my wife and we went to Basildon Town Centre. Of all the places to travel to. I didn't go for a walk about there but I did get out of the car and buy the parking ticket. It was very busy as you can imagine for a Saturday and I got the usual odd looks.<br />
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S then drove me to a park and I went out for a walk there. Once again the few people that were there gave me odd looks. I'm not sure if it's more accepting to others if you,re out walking with a female or not.</div>
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If it was a warmer I could have spent more time there. I felt quite relaxed about being out and about. Because I feel so comfortable with what I'm wearing and the way I look it gives me confidence. It's all thanks to S who has toyed with the idea of a doing a dressing and friend service as a business to the crossdressing community.</div>
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I spent about an hour walking in the park and had a really nice time. My new friend J who I met a few weeks back wants to meet up again. He is very accepting of me as Carolyn and it's really refreshing to have a male friend like that and to be relaxed in the company of others.</div>
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I learnt from this. My hand sewing hasn't yet been perfected and making it wasn't without its trials and tribulations. I found that I had to make the wrist band with the aid of the sewing machine. My first use of a sewing machine. It was enlightening to say the least.<br />
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My third project was to make a mini skirt from an old red flat sheet. I made loads of mistakes while doing it, but once again it was a steep learning curve. My wife kindly modelled it for me.<br />
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I would appreciate any comments you have that could help me improve. The process was simple enough but my skills weren't really up to the task. My main aim still remains the same i.e. to make my own dresses and skirts and this was just the first.<br />
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One thing is for sure is that I really do need to get lessons. I appreciate all the advice my wife is giving me doing this. <br />
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While I blog I'm watching for the umpteenth time Star Trek (The Prequel). I really love Sci Fi. It's amazing how many transvestites are into it. Perhaps we are the true aliens lol.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15577491083605832118noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8796223216907233671.post-76623237673992311462013-04-11T04:12:00.002-07:002013-04-11T04:12:45.292-07:00Thursday 11th April 2013Last night I had to plumb the washing machine. It was one of the five minute jobs that actually just about 15 minutes. I was so surprised. Thought it was going to take ages. Still S was on hand to help which made it a lot easier.<br />
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Not a good day weather wise here in the East of England. It's a fine mist rain and visibility down at the coast earlier on was murky. You couldn't see across the estuary. Before leaving this morning in male mode I wore bracelets on both wrists, a girly ring, pink stud earings, lip gloss and mascara. Also went into ASDA like it. People didn't seem to notice. I had a good walk along the seafront despite the weather.<br />
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Back home now on the computer checking out my usual websites.<br />
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15577491083605832118noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8796223216907233671.post-69240423562483696522013-04-10T03:15:00.000-07:002013-04-10T07:02:26.633-07:00Wednesday 10th AprilJust another day except I'm trapped at home waiting for the boys from Argos to deliver a new washing machine. Our old one is Kaput. Yes, I did think about dressing up for when they arrived but I'm not sure who would have been more freaked out by it, me or them? Anyway I've decided not to. Not brave enough but wearing a glittering bracelet and pink crystal stud earings and if that isn't a give away I don't know what will be. Answers on a postcard please :¬) They should arrive somewhere between 1 and 6pm. How crazy is that? When my iPhone was delivered I was told within the hour.<br />
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I went for my 2 mile walk this morning at the coast. A bit chilly but not too cold. It looked dismal across the estuary though. I wonder if Kent is getting a lashing. This is day three of my diet and I haven't weighed myself yet. My third day without bread. I think I'm feeling better already for it though. I also read an article about dieting where it said that a calorie just isn't a calorie. Let me explain. Some calories are easier to burn off than others so it's important to eat the right calories. The article went on to say that those who took up just a low calorie diet weren't always guaranteed to lose much whereas those on say the Atkins diet would lose so much more. I don't even know what the Atkins diet is. I think it was a fad a few years back. I'll have to do some more research.<br />
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S and I were thinking about going to see the Rocky Horror Show somewhere but not sure how to dress up. Is there anywhere where you can buy costumes? I would like to know. I suppose we could try and knock something up.<br />
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Washing machine arrives at 2.30. I ask them if they are going to connect it. They say no and I argue with them. I said my wife paid for the connection. They apologise but they don't do connections. I get pissed off and let them know. Turns out my wife thought she paid for the connection but didn't. So now I have to connect it. It's not difficult but could do without the hassle.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15577491083605832118noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8796223216907233671.post-73276568368605439442013-04-09T02:52:00.001-07:002013-04-09T05:02:13.159-07:00Tuesday 9th April 2013Had some time off yesterday as I do today. I've been trying to lose weight. I know it worries my friends and family. I think they think I'm going to have a heart attack any minute. Perhaps I will. Anyway this is day two of my diet and I'm not feeling to bad on it. I'm trying to do without bread to see if it stops that bloated feeling and look that I get. I'm walking two miles a day, not far I know but it's a start. I stopped of in Leigh at an established Haberdashery which was called Richardsons. It was nice in there and I picked my material for my apron which is on my list to make for myself. I chose a pink and white gingham. Very girly. I'm going to edge it with some white lace that I think is called Anglais. I may even put a heart shaped pocket on it or perhaps some girly design. Ideas are welcome.<br />
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I also took the drive with my friend Julie (gg) to go to Tiptree and visit the so-called 'Cheap Shop'. Cheap it isn't. Just as pricey as Hobbycraft in my opinion. Still it will have anything that you want to do with Crafts and Arts. We later stopped off in a garden centre. I can't think of the name of it but it's the one where my wife, S, wants to take me fully dressed. I'm getting close to telling Julie about my crossdressing. I've been friends with her for a long time and I don't want that to change so telling is a risk.<br />
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I recieved an email this morning to say that my iPhone will be delivered between 11.33 and 12.33. Can't wait for it to come as being without a decent phone is tedious. I just love the apps and the facilities that an iPhone gives me. I also like to keep my photos store on there. I'm not sure whether to set it up with iCloud or Dropbox. Your advice on this is most welcome. I'll add some more to this throughout the day so check back from time to time.<br />
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Oh I nearly forgot. I've been wearing a very girly braclet and earing today while in male mode and haven't had any adverse reaction to it.<br />
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15577491083605832118noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8796223216907233671.post-13929240508945624512013-04-06T08:05:00.000-07:002013-04-06T08:05:57.686-07:00Saturday 6th AprilWell another week has gone by but not without some high points. I spent most of it working. These short weeks that are punctuated by the Bank Holidays always seem to be longer. Perhaps it's the anticipation of it being a short week that makes it seem longer. I remember when I was a child and the summer holidays seem to go on forever. Children seem to have the knack of ignoring time and just getting on with life. Wish I could be like that again.<br />
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S and I went on to the Pier at Southend on Good Friday. We walked there and back which was a welcome exercise. It was really cold though. There is a new centre at the end of the Pier which we had been meaning to visit for some time. It wasn't worth it though. There was an exhibition of 'Only Fools and Horses' in the main part of the building. Although we loved the series the exhibition of it wasn't our thing. We stopped in the cafe and that was a bit disappointing too. It was very small and the range of food wasn't that good. So it was a tea cake with a cuppa.<br />
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Bank Holiday Monday was a bit different. I dressed in the evening and went to visit J. J is male and is fully accepting of me as Carolyn. He was a true gentleman and treated me very well. I hope I get a chance to visit him again soon. It was a 40 minute drive to his house and it's the furthest I've driven myself dressed enfemme.<br />
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It's the afternoon now and I can tell you that this morning went very well. S took me for a drive to Basildon Town Centre to collect a book from the Post Office she bought for me called 'Miss Vera's Crossdress for Success'. Can't wait to start reading it. I stayed in the car but I did walk to the ticket machine to pay for the parking. It was nice walking in the fresh air and then standing in line behind a couple of women. They did their best to ignore me. I've realised when I go out I'm a bit of a curiosity and most people just like to satisfy there curiosity and have a bit of a snicker.<br />
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15577491083605832118noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8796223216907233671.post-9707434636186753452013-03-31T22:42:00.000-07:002013-04-01T00:58:15.842-07:00Went to the WoodsS and I went to a Suffolk Woodland yesterday. I thought I would get a chance to put my new outfit on but it didn't happen. Instead I dressed in a black woollen tunic and fishnet tights. I dressed at home so the drive was also exciting. S doesn't mind doing the driving while I'm dressed so I can enjoy the myself and chill out. The most nervous moments are getting out of the house but I'm beginning to get philosophical about it all in so much that if I get seen then I get seen. The drive took just under two hours and because we left late we headed for the fish and chip restaurant. S went in to get the food and I sat in the car. As always, I suppose I'm a bit of a curiosity, people seem to stare somewhat. It was a busy car park and a popular destination. I normally wear sunglasses so it makes it easier for me to see who's looking.<br />
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After our food, which was yummy by the way and didn't do anything to help my diet at all, we went to a local woodland car park which is fairly secluded, apart from some walkers and dog owners, and somewhere I can get out and have a walk. Of course I get seen and it is a bit scary but I managed to enjoy myself. Such freedom is virtually impossible to get closer to home. Perhaps I should be bolder and from time to time I am. This has included a 35 minute circular walk (see below).<br />
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I never realised that the tunic was that short. Still I guess the clue is in the word tunic and not dress. Incidently I get a lot of people saying I should be wearing high heels and if I found them comfortable then I would wear them, but I don't so I only wear them occasionally. The highest heel I wear for comfort is about a 1 1/2 inch wedge shoes. The other thing about high heels is that they tend to sink into soft ground which is what the woodlands is made up of.</div>
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You can't see it very well in the photos but I was also wearing a bright pink chain necklace and bracelet.<br />
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After a couple of hours walking about we moved on to somewhere else and we must have been noticed because a blue saloon car followed. We pulled up on small parking spot next to the woodland and I got out. I was then followed by the man who caught up with me and we stood having a conversation about my crossdressing. I never got his name but he seemed more interested in looking at S and after about 20 minutes he moved on<br />
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A short while ago, a Sunday evening, I was so fed up I decided, probably in a moment of madness, to go out for a walk dressed enfemme from home. I planned a circular route from home and the trip both S and I calculated to be about 15 minutes. Well we got that wrong because it took just over half an hour. I decided to wear my red shift dress and my coat as it was cold. I was quite brave at first but as I got further away from the safety of my home the nerves started to take hold. Fortunately the excitement of being out dressed overcame the nerves. So turning left out of my home I headed up the road passing on the way the neighbour's home would recognise if they saw me but under the cover of darkness it helped to keep my secret safe. Our road is fairly busy and cars were going by all the time. I don't mind the cars coming from behind me, it's the cars coming towards you that cause problems because you are in their headlights and the our road isn't that well lit. After a few hundred yards I turned left onto **** Road. This road is heavily populated residential area. The odd car passed by but the walk up the hill to the major A road went without incident and I tried to enjoy the feeling of being out dressed as woman. As I reached the A road I was surprised just how well it was lit and although I've driven up and down this road many times I hadn't really noticed it before. Cars were going past me a some speed so by the time they realised what I was, if they did, it was already too late. I walked past a speed camera and wondered that if it went off would I be in the photo. The thought amused me to think of me being captured like that. The most nerve wracking part was going to be walking past McDonalds which was on the next corner. Looking through the window as I went past there weren't many in there, but turning the corner and crossing the road to the entrance there were plenty of cars going in and out for the drive thru. I had to wait while a couple of cars drove slowly across my path and I was definitely seen then. I walked across the road caught in a car's headlights. Keeping my head down and trying to do my most feminine walk I soldiered on (should that be womaned on lol). What else could I do. I was now nearer home going on than to turn around and go back. When I came to a mini roundabout I had to wait while a car went by before crossing but as I did my heart raced because of couple of likely lads appeared walking towards me from across the roundabout. My fear was that if they chose the direction I was going in it meant that they would be behind me and if they saw what I was then they could have easily have followed me back to my home. Fortunately for the me the lure of McDonalds must have been greater because they headed off in that direction. Just another 100 yards and I would be back in my road. As I turned the corner my next fear was if a neighbour was out walking their dog and they would be coming directly towards me. My friends house was the first house I passed and they were thankfully inside. When I looked down road I could see it was clear and the only problem might be if a neighbour was to appear from their drive. Turning on to my drive I remember smiling at just achieving such a milestone. It's something I've always wanted to do. It took just over 30 minutes and gave me a lot of confidence and a chance to practice my girly walk.<br />
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Just been told by S that if I wanted to I can go dressed enfemme to Ikea this morning. Not so sure about it. Too many people. Too scary. Just had a thought....its April Fools day to day. Maybe its her way of having a joke on me.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15577491083605832118noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8796223216907233671.post-68303169568324368532013-03-30T23:24:00.002-07:002013-03-30T23:24:53.707-07:00RevitalisedI had a really good day yesterday. My wife decided that it was time we went shopping and bought a new dress, shoes and some costume jewellery for me. She is so good to me. We went into Evans because they have the sizes that will fit me. We spent some time looking about and although I was in male mode I did wear mascara, a pair of owl studs, a feminine ring and a couple of bracelets. So I don't think it could be missed by the shop assistants who we were shopping for. We found a dress and my wife also bought me a shrug to go with it. I'll post a photo later as she has said we'll go for a walk around a garden centre this morning. I didn't have the courage to ask if I could try the dress on in the shop although I really wanted to. There is nothing more disappointing than getting home with all your goodies only to find that what you bought doesn't fit.<br />
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In Evans I also got some costume jewellery which include a bracelet, necklace and a ring.<br />
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After shopping in Evans we made our way to Brantano's who have a good selection of shoes. We found a pair of wedge heeled shoes with a 1 1/2 inch heels. I did try them on and yes I spotted by other customers but I thought what the hell.<br />
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After getting these I'm in girly heaven, revitalised and I'm now looking forward to going out today in them and walking about getting photos. I'll post a couple of photos on here later.<br />
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For some time now I've been toying with the idea to tell other people about my crossdressing or at least not being so secretive about it all. It does worry me and I'm concerned not so much about people not accepting but of ridicule and persecution. Yes, I'm also worried about my employers finding out as well. It's difficult to know how people will respond and I would appreciate if anyone else out there could share their experiences.<br />
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15577491083605832118noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8796223216907233671.post-91119264019361260482013-02-08T23:04:00.003-08:002013-02-08T23:07:42.059-08:00The Urge to PurgeIt's been over three months now and I have this downer on my crossdressing. I'm not why I go through this every now and then but I do. If it wasn't for my wife I would have chucked all my girly things away for the umpteenth time, but she is always there encouraging me.<br />
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I know this may sound strange to some of you but she missed me being Carolyn. She enjoys who I become. She especially misses our girly nights in chatting about stuff over a glass of Sauvignon. I did dress 4 times including this morning in those three months. Two of those times were because she insisted. When I did dress I really didn't feel like it and it didn't inspire me to dress again. I think I'm through it now because the other night I dressed and went out my home and walked for nearly half and hour. Not sure where the courage came from as I've said before I don't really look the part and did get some odd looks. Fortunately no trouble which is what we all fear when we venture out.<br />
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Going to go out today but not sure where. My wife says we'll go somewhere. Suffolk or Norfolk is always a favourite if she wants me to dress.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15577491083605832118noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8796223216907233671.post-86638864273604262302012-11-04T01:31:00.000-07:002012-11-04T01:31:18.912-07:00Trip to Canvey IslandWeather wise it was quite a nice day so my wife said "How about dressing up and going for a walk?" We both had it on our mind that I need to sort out my wig which we bought previously purchased from Angel Wigs. It is a nice quality wig but I hadn't worn it much due to it being too much hair. Linda, the owner of Angel Wigs, had said to live with for a while before deciding what to do. Now I needed it restyling<br />
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So a phone call to Linda at <a href="http://angelwigs.co.uk/">angelwigs.co.uk</a> and an appointment was made. When I was buying the wig Linda made the trip to my home. This time I would make the trip to Linda's new salon fully dressed enfemme. Angel wigs is in the High St (Furtherwick Road) but the car park was behind the salon in Sainsbury's Car Park. So it meant walking through the streets to the salon. How nerve wracking. I haven't been so nervous before but also so lovely to be out dressed.<br />
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The car park was very full and people everywhere. With encouragement from my wife I made my way out of the car and put my coat on. It was quiet windy and the feel of the wind through my hair and clothes made me feel so girly. It was so windy it blew my dress up several times and some passersby got a glimpse of stocking. I made the most of the walk and it was a new experience for me. Of course I was aware of some people staring but generally most people ignored me.<br />
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We were early for the appointment so I got to really take in the atmosphere of the salon. It was the first time I had ever been in a salon of this type fully dressed. On prior occasions in shops in London I had always gone in male mode which isn't the same kind of experience. There was lots of friendly conversation and I asked if many crossdressers/transvestites visited the salon. Linda caters for a whole range of people and our community is most welcome and is offered a specialised service.<br />
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Taking the opportunity to do another girly thing and read Grazia. I never new what a nice quality magazine it was and it gave me lots of ideas for future purchases.<br />
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As you can see from this photo the salon has been designed so well. It was very spacious and I was able to walk about. On this occasion I took the opportunity to redo my lipstick in one of the many mirrors. <br />
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To be honest I could have spent all day there. With renewed courage we made our way back to the car. Still windy but my head held high in my newly styled wig and I felt so good.<br />
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We decided to get some sea air so made our way to the sea front where we had a bag of chips for lunch and then made our way further up the coast. We parked up and this is always when I get the most nervous about being out dressed. The weather was taking a turn for the worse and it was so windy and there was a distinct chill in the air. Back in the car and now for the journey home.<br />
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15577491083605832118noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8796223216907233671.post-60620157635072596602012-11-02T01:04:00.001-07:002012-11-02T01:04:31.225-07:00Girly TuesdayLast Tuesday I had the day off. It was a bit unexpected but I took advantage of it. My wife unfortunately had to go to work. She said when leaving why don't you dress and take yourself out. I am always a bit worried when I'm out on my own dressed enfemme. The other thing about dressing on my own is doing my make-up. To be honest I'm completely useless at it. My wife isn't that good at it either. We've both decided to do a make-up course somewhere. Probably close to where we work would be better.<br />
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Anyway I started doing the make-up and every time I stood back to look at myself in the mirror I wanted to just take it all off and leave it. Anyway after me sending whinging texts to my wife and her sending back encouraging texts I eventually got it done. The nail varnish though was a complete catastrophe. So it had to come off and left the house without it.<br />
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I drove to the coast and when I got to the car park I couldn't believe how many people were there and then it dawned on me that of course it was half term. I drove straight back out and text my wife I was leaving. She said to go back and sit there for a while to calm down. So with renewed courage I did just that. Sitting there with people staring at me was very unnerving. The urge to get out the car was very strong, so strong I overcame my fear and opened the car door. I could see and feel people staring but with a pair of sunglasses on I could see who was doing what without making eye contact with anyone.<br />
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Standing outside the car I felt so good. The wind ruffling my hair and clothes. I put on my coat as it was very cold and then walked away towards the sea wall. It was a distance of about 50 yards but immediately I was aware of a younger man who got out of his car and a much older man standing by a lamppost who both followed me. It was a mixture of anticipation and excitement. I didn't think for one moment that I was in any danger. <br />
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I did my girly walk as I've been instructed by my wife to do. I was now walking amongst many others. Of course I got looks I would be surprised if I didn't. As there were so many I was unable to get any photos. I walked for about a quarter of a mile with my two admirers in tow. I spent sometime sitting on a bench and they both walked passed by me. Presumably they didn't want be seen too close to a crossdresser. Eventually one of them walked off and the other younger man followed me back to my car. He got in his and I turned and gave him a smile and he smiled back. I left and he followed but he eventually lost me in the traffic. I then made my way to an area of heathland/woodland that I know fairly well.<br />
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It's very strange that I wouldn't class myself as gay or bi and it is only in girly mode that I would even allow this. It does cause me some guilt and I agonise over it.<br />
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He eventually walked on as he thought he heard someone coming. I walked around for a bit more enjoying my girly time. Being dressed is one of the best things for me. Like so many other transvestites it keeps me sane. But inevitably the guilt does follow and then I bring it all into question.<br />
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This is me on an earlier trip to the coast.<br />
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I'm looking forward to my next girly trip out. Perhaps one of you could join me.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15577491083605832118noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8796223216907233671.post-41779052350042554532012-10-29T22:29:00.001-07:002012-10-29T22:30:12.011-07:00Awake early again but this time for a good reason.Got woken up early this morning from a really deep sleep. My wife heard a noise so I had to do my manly thing and go check the house. It turned out to be some dick head in his car playing his music really loud. It was 3.45am!! Can you believe that. Went back to bed to try and get back to that cosy place but it didn't happen.<br />
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My mind has been racing since then because I've got this urge to go out dressed in public for the first time without my wife with me. But the fear is equally as urgent. I really want to go to our local shopping centre and buy something and maybe sit and have a cuppa somewhere. But I'm put off by many things not least that it's half term and there'll be lots of kids about to start something or make fun of me.<br />
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It took me years to build up the courage and just go for it. I go out with my wife from time to time. I do get scared and I do feel guilty about it. I agonise over what will happen if I get outed by someone. As far as I know only 4 people know about my crossdressing. Two I don't have any contact with anymore and of the other two one is my wife. The other a female friend I'm not sure about. I think I told her in one of my low moments some years ago but can't be sure. The relationship between us chilled sometime ago after a bitter row and I have to accept that she may tell or may have told other people.<br />
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Walking out feels very natural and I love the feel of being out and the fact that poeple know I'm a crossdresser. As I said in an earlier post I don't look convincing and having people accept me for what I am feels so good. This is me when I built up courage to go for a walk on a bridge crossing the M25.<br />
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I suppose the more I dress to go out the more likely it will be that I get caught. It's inevitable isn't it. But I feel driven to be me and me is a crossdresser. I have no wish to become a woman, but just to be like one.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15577491083605832118noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8796223216907233671.post-61514509202170993162012-10-28T10:47:00.001-07:002012-10-28T10:47:23.129-07:00Ever been caught?I've been caught. It was a shock too to be honest. It was back in the day when I wasn't as brave as I am now and believe me I'm not that brave now. My wife is my backbone. <br />
<br />My ex-wife worked in London where we lived at the time. The company she worked for used to require her to visit a Printers in Bury St Edmunds on a regular weekly business trip. It just so happened that on the same day I had a scheduled day off and used to drive her there. She would spend all day at their premises and I would take myself off to the local woods which was Thetford Forest. I used to visit a picnic area which I believe was called Kings. I'd got into the habit of taking my girlie things with me and when parked up changing into them. As it was fairly secluded I would park up by the woods and walk a short way in. Never spending more than a minute or so out like this because of the fear of being caught.<br /><br />On this occasion it was a very hot day and I had changed into my girly things which included a short mini skirt, fishnet stockings with black suspenders and short heels. I laid out on a towel and started to play with myself but couldn't relax because if another car came in I would be seen. I remembered that in the boot was a wind break so I put this up and between that and an open car door I felt safe. I started to play. It was such a lovely day. I looked up at the clouds and fell into this kind of stupor feeling the knickers, stockings and shoes with a little mini skirt. It felt so good and I wanted the feeling to last. So I came to the brink many times. I was so chilled out I then fell asleep. I wasn't sure how long I was asleep but woke up to a noise to find this guy standing over me playing with himself.<br /><br />I panicked and just jumped onto my feet and rushed into the car and drove off leaving the wind break, towel and some other things behind. I was shaking as it was the first time I had ever encountered anyone while dressed. I drove around for about for an hour or so and eventually when my panic subsided I went back. No one was about but my things were still there. I quickly grabbed them and then left. It was sometime after that I reflected on this encounter and got excited about it. I went back many times but never saw the other man again.<br /><br />I always laugh about it when I think that the other guy must have really freaked out too.<br />
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I've read some really startling stories about some being caught by bosses and wife and other family members and friends. Now that would really freak me out.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15577491083605832118noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8796223216907233671.post-59270852425413231092012-10-27T12:21:00.000-07:002012-10-27T13:07:45.024-07:00Colder and WindierFurther to this morning's blog we went to the coast. It was so much colder and windier than it was at home. I was wearing a red woollen shift dress, fishnet stockings, pink knickers and fishnet hold-ups with Mary Jane shoes. When I got out of the car I couldn't believe how icy the wind was. It was much cosier in the car. We got there about 10am which was late for us. Not many people about. I spent about half an hour walking about with my wife while she took photos.<br />
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Of course I had to wear a coat because it was so cold but when the wind blew the coat wasn't any protection. We stopped off while my wife went to some local shops and she brought me back a pair of red gloves to match the dress. When we got back to the car there was a car which was parked right next to ours. Two oriental men got out the car but didn't take any notice, or at least they seemed not to.<br />
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We then moved further down the coast and stopped in a car park and went for a another walk. It wasn't any warmer. It's so funny when other people are about because you never know what the reaction will be. I do get stares but most don't stare for long. We got a few more photos but didn't stay for long. In the car park I met a man I had seen before and he said hello which was nice.<br />
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Looking forward to my next walk as I enjoy it so much. It's funny how I have a mixture of apprehension and exhilaration when out like this.<br />
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As you can see from the photos there isn't any mistaking that I am a man dressed in female attire. I don't pretend to be the perfect woman but just a man dressed enfemme.<br />
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<a name='more'></a>Here's an intersting article about Lasse-Maja <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lasse-Maja">http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lasse-Maja</a> It really is amazing the lives some people lead. Does anyone know who the most famous female to male crossdresser was. Is Joan of Arc a candidate?<br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15577491083605832118noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8796223216907233671.post-37777834873419503222012-10-26T23:01:00.000-07:002012-10-27T03:29:24.488-07:00Cold and WindyI couldn't wait for the weekend to dress up. Yesterday started off a bit odd. I knew our car needed a MOT but didn't know the date. So while on the way to work I called my wife and asked her to find the Certificate and let me know the date. 5 minutes later she called to say it ran out on the 13th. That wasn't so bad until she added October!!!<br />
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So I've driving about all that time without a valid MOT. I would have to leave the car at work, but that meant no car for the weekend and no going out dressed anywhere. I don't feel confident enough to walk out from home fully enfemme. Anyway the upshot is that we've hired a car for the weekend.<br />
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As I said I couldn't wait for the weekend to be with my wife and to dress up so Friday night was the start of it but couldn't bring myself to dress up. It's a mixture of tiredness and guilt. I feel guilty a lot and wonder how other TVs cope with it. At a friends house some weeks back (another TV) we had a brief chat about the guilt thing. She said she had never felt guilt and while her wife was alive she had been fully accepting of it. Well my wife is fully accepting of it as well so what is the difference between us then? Well my friend came into crossdressing as an adult, but my earliest memories are from when I was 5 years old. So could it be that those early years of being imprinted of what a boy should and shouldn't do are the key to my guilty feelings? I'd be interested to know what your view is. <br />
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So Friday night was a wash out as far as dressing up was concerned but Saturday is different. The battle between the guilt and the compulsion to dress was won and I sit here wearing a Little Black Dress , knickers and shoes. I did my usual walk to the end of the drive but I rushed back inside not because of the usual panic about neighbours seeing me but because it is so cold and windy.<br />
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An online friend has been trying to get me so I'm waiting for her to contact me again. She told her wife about crossdressing and she didn't take it too well and although she has chilled somewhat he said it is still a sensitive issue. It begs the question though doesn't it that what is it that women find so difficult to accept? I would love to know. My wife accepted it almost without question so maybe I should start my investigation there.<br />
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My wife said I should dress up this morning and she'll take me for a drive to the coast. I've been there before and got out of the car and went for a walk with her for about half a mile. I managed on that day in daylight to stay away from the car and stay out in full view of the public for more than an hour and a half. When I look back on the experience I still can't believe I did it. Some people really stared but some to my surprise even said hello to us and it was a mixture of both male and female. The other thing to add is that as a Crossdresser/Transvestite, I don't look to good so it isn't like people will pay no attention to me. I really do look like a 'geezer in drag'.<br />
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I might post again later but for now I want to go surfing.<br />
<br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15577491083605832118noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8796223216907233671.post-17343765380022302112012-10-24T20:37:00.001-07:002012-10-24T20:37:24.093-07:00A nice opportunity before workUp at 4am today, couldn't sleep. Didn't get home till about 10.30 after finishing late a work. So one of those days where I'm tired but can't sleep. Took the opportunity though to dress up for a while before getting ready for work at 5.30.<br />
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I'm wearing a little black dress, shoes and knickers. Still very dark outside so walked out the house while no one is about. I often do this. Just walk from the house to stand on the roadside. You get the odd car go by and I step back into the shadows. When I look back at my house and those of the neighbours I often think if anyone else is up watching me. Sometimes the thought scares me and I rush back and other times I think what the hell and so what.<br />
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Although it's not that cold outside I didn't stay out for that long. Only about 5 minutes, but just that little exposure does me so much good. Like so many other Transvestites I feel chilled. I'll have a good day to day because I'll be thinking that earlier today I was dressed up.<br />
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I've been thinking about going for a walk along the coast at some point. It will be a big thing for me as the walk I want to do is very public and it's about two miles. I'll have to buy myself some decent shoes to do the walk, but despite my efforts and those of my wife we can't find a suitable pair. I don't want flats but a small heel of about an inch but also a wedge shoe. I find them comfortable. Been looking for a pair of Mary Janes.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15577491083605832118noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8796223216907233671.post-43661887279915595952012-10-21T00:19:00.000-07:002012-10-21T00:19:35.523-07:00A typical short tripI try to take every opportunity to Crossdress although to be honest I don't always fancy the idea. Typically when me and my wife take a short trip I dress up.<br />
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I will normally put on a girly top, short skirt, hold-ups and shoes and travel like this. The only make-up I use is lipstick. That's because it's easy to get it off when I arrive. I don't usually wear a wig. I wear a pair of earings that really can't be missed as they are hoops, sometimes a pink pair.<br />
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I suppose some of you would say that I wouldn't look that feminine looking like this but for me it isn't always about looking femme and trying to pass as a woman. More for me it's about being a man dressed in feminine clothes. I know I must look odd but it is me and it's who I am.<br />
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Sitting in the passenger seat up front I get plenty of looks. Wearing sunglasses helps me look to see who is looking at me without making eye contact.<br />
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When I arrive if there aren't too many people about I get brave and stand outside the car for a photo opportunity. My wife is very supportive in this aspect.<br />
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I'm still mainly in the closet with only a few people knowing what I am. Yes, like the majority of you I am worried about the consequences of being outed. I know one day it will happen and I will deal with it when it comes.<br />
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I have lots of questions, and lots of doubts too, about Transvestism and all its aspects. In future blogs I'll try to explain them. Some questions are obvious to those of us who have been through the dreaded 'purge' is why the hell do we do it? Why is there so much prejudice within the crossdressing community (I include transexuals in this without wishing to offend)? Why are we ridiculed by 'normal people'? Why are most transvestites so scared to come out of the closet? Is guilt a necessary trait for most of us transvestites. Who remembers the TV/TS club in Essex Rd, Shoreditch and then Liverpool Road? Who remembers Yvonne Sinclair?<br />
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I'm interested in pursuing some intellectual debate around these questions and more besides.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15577491083605832118noreply@blogger.com1